Those friends who say they will be there for you in good times and bad, then when the going gets tough they are nowhere to be seen. If you don’t phone/text them they couldn’t give two hoots what your up to or how you’re doing.
There are also the friends that are nice to your face and bitch about you to others behind your back. You don’t need them, even if you have been friends for years. Friends don’t do that.
Here is a list of toxic people you need to eliminate from your life to make it better for you:
- Those who spread negativity
- Those who criticize you all the time
- Those who waste your time
- Those who are jealous
- Those who play the victim
- Those who don’t care
- Those who are self-centred
- Those that keep disappointing you
You need to look after yourself and if those people are more of a hindrance than help then you need to say bye-bye. Don’t think you are a horrible person because you’re anything but.
You can choose where you want those memories of them to go, to forget and bin them or to keep them stored away, the choice is yours.
I’ve always been taught to treat people as I want to be treated.