I thought I’d write a poem today which will most likely make a feature in my book once I put it together…
Let me know what you think
It’s not what you look like, it makes you stand out I know, but does it show just who you are deep down, I think no.
Don’t be superficial and just go on looks alone, the person who you are seeking should like you for you, if not tell them to go.
Standing in front of the mirror, does it show how you feel, your happiness inside you spinning on an imaginary wheel?
Don’t worry about the outside it is not to be approved, because once you have undressed it.. all has been removed,
So worry about the inside of you before you decorate the out.
Tell the vanity inside of you to hurry up, get out.
We all want lovely clear skin… Including me.
By just leaving it to luck isn’t the best thing to do but to get yourself into doing these things will definitely get you better skin.DAILY ❤️ Wash your face twice daily❤️ Take your make up off every night❤️ Apply moisturiser after cleansing❤️ Take warm showers (never hot)❤️ Drink tons of water throughout the day❤️ Get enough sleep aim for 8 hours❤️ Always apply SPF 30
❤️ Exfoliate your skin
❤️ Use a sheet mask
❤️ Disinfect your phone
❤️ Change your pillowcases
❤️ Wash your make up brushes
❤️ Exfoliate your whole body (do it more often if you fake tan)
❤️Treat yourself to a facial
❤️Stock up on your products if needed
❤️ See a dermatologist if you can afford it
❤️ Get a skin screening to see where your problem areas lie.
❤️ Check expiration dates on products and make up
If you follow this list I can guarantee your skin will see improvements
Let me know down below if you have any that I haven’t included that you find beneficial in your skincare routine.
Til next time
In life there are some things you can’t control but there are plenty of things you can.
Here are a few below to digest
How honest you are
Who your friends are
What books you read
How often you exercise
What food you eat
What risks you take
How kind you are
How often you say I love you
How often you say thank you
How you express your feelings
Whether or not you ask for help
How many times a day you smile
The amount of effort you put into things
How much money you spend
How much time you spend worrying
How often you think about the past
Whether you judge someone or not
Whether to try again
How to appreciate the things you do have
I hope this gives you some food for thought
Til next time
After 17 years – that’s how long since I left school you would think that bullying may have been a thing of the past. To be honest I think it’s got 10 times worse.
I was sadly a victim of bullying from alot of my year at school all because my skin wasn’t clear. I was verbally abused and then come the end of school physically.
It won’t ever leave me, but I always think I never want anyone else to have the sadness and pain I did. I know in reality that there will be thousands in the world who will feel the same pain.
Here is how you can spot a cactus friend – those that pretend to be your friend then stab you in the back…and a flower friend – the ones who truly love you and love to see you bloom.
They say it takes a bigger person to walk away from a bully. If you feel strong enough inside to stand up for yourself then don’t let someone walk all over you. But in turn don’t be horrible and become a bully in the process.
Bullying doesn’t just doesn’t happen when you’re young… People of any age fall victim and its so very sad. Cyber crime is on the up as people find it an easy way to target the vulnerable.
If we keep speaking about anti bullying, and looking after ourselves and our friends maybe one day it’ll be something we don’t have to worry about.
I put together a little video over on my youtube channel,
I aim to upload self-help videos on there once a week.
it would mean the world for you to take a nosey 🙂
let me know what you think
Til next time you beautiful people
I was looking through some old photos of myself and it seems that the fringe has been a love hate relationship.
However I wanted to look at the ones of me with longer hair with one so I can decide what I’m going to do with my mop once it gets to that length.
So this is 2008 and I think that a boyfriend I was with at the time saw a old pic of me with a fringe and said I looked ‘hot’ with one so I went and got one, safe to say when he dumped me I pinned it back and grew it out 🙈
This next one was 2014. I had grown my bob that was blonde to above my shoulders and thought I’d dye it brown and bring back the fringe. I think in this pic I look younger than I did in the first. I think I got fed up of getting it trimmed and it went…again.
This is me today 2019 for future readers. This is a £20 amazon wig. I’m actually really digging it. It’s very close to natural colour so I can dream of when it’s this length. I may brave it and wear it out, well my theory is its gonna keep my ears warm in the winter.
Have you had any hairstyles that just keep creeping back in?
Even though I haven’t stepped foot outside my front door today I have made sure that I’ve made some people smile today
I have had a couple conversations on the phone, and I made sure there was a bit of laughter in there somewhere. I always think if I’ve made at least one person happy then I am happy.
On my Instagram I couldn’t help but show the silly side of me with a good old sing-along and a Snapchat filter
Here it is 🙈
Sometimes people won’t be having a good day and might not have it in them to let you know. But a little cheerfulness goes a long long way.
The days not out so go make someone’s day.