Category: words of wisdom

Things you can control

In life there are some things you can’t control but there are plenty of things you can. Here are a few below to digest   Your beliefs Your attitude Your thoughts Your perspective How honest you are Who your friends are What books you read How often you exercise...

Standing up to a bully

After 17 years – that’s how long since I left school you would think that bullying may have been a thing of the past. To be honest I think it’s got 10 times worse. I was sadly a victim of bullying from alot of my year at school all...

A to Zen of Life

I put together a little video over on my youtube channel, I aim to upload self-help videos on there once a week. it would mean the world for you to take a nosey 🙂 let me know what you think Til next time you beautiful people...

Make someone else’s day

Even though I haven’t stepped foot outside my front door today I have made sure that I’ve made some people smile today I have had a couple conversations on the phone, and I made sure there was a bit of laughter in there somewhere. I always think if I’ve...

Get your head in the game

I have just realised my title is a high school muaical song but I’m going to roll with it. So I really think making lists is something that everyone should do. Even if you have a mind that remembers everything. These little beauts are from Card Factory for £2...

Dating Disaster

Have you ever been on a date and the person you thought you been talking to was just your type. Whether you met them on a drunken night out and have arranged a first date via text or you have been online dating. Then you meet up with them...

Storytime Sunday

Take a seat I’m going to tell you a story. So I’m nearly 34 and I’ll tell you something… Even though I am not where I expected to be or dreamt of being… I have been on one hell of a journey…and it has made me the person I...

The blog has….

Hey,after you’ve had a laugh at my drawing I wanted just a little catch up with you all. You may have noticed by the look of my blog that I’ve given it a little makeover Click here after reading and you’ll see what I meanwww.holzieloves.co.uk Seeing the home page...

Bullied for being me

After watching the tear jerking documentary with little mix Jesy Nelson ‘odd one out’ it didn’t half bring back all the feelings of what happened to me. Life from the age of 11 was not how I envisioned it to be. I guess starting puberty that early didn’t help....

Fierce Female Friday

For a month on a Friday I am going to be featuring some awesome women on a little series called fierce female Friday… I thought I’d start off with me.. 1. What makes you feel powerful? Being able to have my own mind, create my own happiness, and wear...

10 great ways to start your day

Some of us just get out of bed with no routine, no real action plan and that’s absolutely fine. But adding these things to your morning will make it great believe me. I especially like number 10. Music always gets me pumped. I may make a evening one soon...

Those so called friends

Do you have those people who you know will be at the end of the phone… If you ring them / message or knock on THEIR door. But no way would they go out of their way to fit you into their day. Don’t be made a fool of,...

You make me laugh

Laughing It really is the best thing to do every day. I make sure I’ve done it at least once a day and then I know at some point that day I was happy. It’s the best medicine and the cheapest form of therapy. Here are 3 things that...

You can’t help it

I want you all to really digest this… You can’t help who you are as a person, what choices you want to persue in life – whether it’s your career or something else. It’s whatever your heart tells you to follow. You can’t help who you fall for, whether...

The size of your…

OK Hol, take a deep breath and type… So here goes Whether it’s the size of your waist, your boobs or your penis. Does it really matter? I have been on the slimmer side and the curvier side I’ve had big boobs and barely there ones too I don’t...

The ball is rolling

YES I’VE DONE IT IT’S BEEN GOING AROUND IN MY MIND ALL THE WORDS I WANT TO WRITE WERE REALLY HARD TO FIND 🌸 I finally got my act together and thought about this book i have been willing to write. I want to make it perfect, not just...

It’s OK you can look away

Gone are the days where people simply sat down at a desk or a, table and wrote in a book… I mean I still do it but things started to consume our lives….and get in the way. Making sure your phone is fully charged so you can scroll through...

Love conquers all

Here’s me a single pringle (I nearly hate that saying as much as people say ‘off on me holibobs’) I believe that the right person is out there for everyone. No matter how long you’re waiting. Whether it’s a man or a woman I really don’t mind as long...

Chill the F out

As I write this I have plonked my headphones on and put some acoustic music on so I can get into the zone. So many of us stress out about so many situations there really isn’t any need if you just chill the F out. Firstly I have changed...