I believe we are all given problems in life so we can prove we are strong enough to get through them to enjoy the happier times.
The majority of the time I’m laughing the day away with a positive mind. I have been handed a pretty crap hand over the last few years and of course there are days when I don’t feel as strong and its just me, my hot water bottle and bed. Of late there are people that make the situation I’m in – In a wheelchair rather annoying and sad.
Here are some of the things that people say:
- Asking my Mum “Is she ok?” – I’m sat right here they can ask me
- “You don’t want to be in there all your life” – damn right I don’t
- “Can’t you just do more exercise?” – if only it was that easy
- “I’m so sorry you poor thing” – no pity needed, it doesn’t help
Also when going on the bus some of the bus drivers aren’t helpful in the slightest and just expect you to do wheelies on and off the bus, the ramp was put in for a reason. There’s been a handful of times I’ve cried cos I have felt useless because I just can’t get on and off the bus like everyone else.
I guess there is always going to be ignorant assholes and I’ve just got to grin and bear it.
I am not my disability and I hope that others can see that too instead of treating me like that’s all that I am. The majority of people are lovely its the minority that ruins it.
Thanks for reading and I’ll see you in a happier post next time.