Posted in Equality, lgbt, lifestyle, Personal, sexuality, words of wisdom

You can’t help it

I want you all to really digest this…

You can’t help who you are as a person, what choices you want to persue in life – whether it’s your career or something else. It’s whatever your heart tells you to follow.

You can’t help who you fall for, whether it’s the opposite sex or the same sex, religion or race.

You can help by being happy with what your heart or head has chosen for you.

Keep being you and staying true.

❤️

Til next time

Posted in lifestyle, Personal, sexuality, words of wisdom

Love conquers all

Here’s me a single pringle

(I nearly hate that saying as much as people say ‘off on me holibobs’)

I believe that the right person is out there for everyone. No matter how long you’re waiting.

Whether it’s a man or a woman I really don’t mind as long as I’m loved and I love them in return.

I totally don’t think there should be labels such as straight, gay, bisexual, queer, pansexual and any others I’ve missed. It should just be I’m in love with this person, end of.

Its been a while since I’ve been in a relationship but hopefully someone will see what a fab human being I am and literally sweep me up off my feet.

If you are reading this and are single, please don’t worry. Go with what your heart tells you, you will know when the time is right.

Thanks for stopping by

Til next time

PS: I believe I’ve probably wrote a post like this but it is just a reminder 💕

Posted in Equality, lgbt, love, Personal, Relationship

Love is love

I truly believe that the heart chooses whoever it beats fast for, the one person who makes you have butterflies that feels so magical you don’t want it to go.

Some people have fallen in love many times and some just this once but let me tell you this

from the age of let’s say 15 looked at love like this: It doesn’t matter what gender you fall for, it’s the person, their personality, the way you get when you’re around them.

You just know and I don’t think anyone should ever feel like they can’t be in love with someone because they are the same sex, or a different race or religion.

Love feels the same no matter who it’s with

This t-shirt is from boohoo just incase you fancy getting yourself one.

Stay true and be you ❤️

Til next time

Posted in lifestyle, love, Personal, podcast

LISTEN UP #4 – FIRST TIME FIRST LOVE – UNDER PRESSURE

This week I bring you a story time over on my podcast of how I was pressured into doing some things in life that I didn’t want to really do. One of them was losing my virginity.

I am on Spotify now which I think is fab so if you want to hear this weeks episode click here

I know not everyone has Spotify so I always leave the Soundcloud one here that you just need to press on the play button to listen.

Let me know your thoughts on the podcast or If you have been through something similar.

Much love…me xxx

Posted in Health, lifestyle, Personal

Big girls do cry

Oh my where do I start,

So, I have been not as active on here as I usually am. I really don’t want people to think I’m any less of a blogger now than I was when I was smashing posts out left, right and centre.

As you know if you follow me I have been in and out of the hospital this last year and it’s not particularly improving but I must try to manage it the best I can at home. My body still paralyses every day as soon as my eyes open it’s like it thinks ha she’s awake let’s be beat her body up.

To be honest I am actually coping mentally better than I was but of course I get those days when I think oh bloody hell, why me. My thoughts need to be – you just try me.

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Also I had a birthday at the weekend which I couldn’t really celebrate for the very sad reason, that my big brother lost his fight with Cancer the day before my birthday. I really was hoping he had more fight left in him. Two years ago he was diagnosed, and he took everything in his stride. Will miss him so very much. Oh dear I’m tearing up again.

Please know it’s ok to cry though, it shows you’re human and have a heart.

Once my heads a bit straighter I will have a more regular uploading schedule. I much prefer to write and publish on the same day. I guess we are all different.

Thanks for being understanding, and I’ll see you in my next post.

Til then

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Posted in lifestyle, Personal, Quotes, Relationship

When friends turn toxic

Those friends who say they will be there for you in good times and bad, then when the going gets tough they are nowhere to be seen. If you don’t phone/text them they couldn’t give two hoots what your up to or how you’re doing.

There are also the friends that are nice to your face and bitch about you to others behind your back. You don’t need them, even if you have been friends for years. Friends don’t do that.

Here is a list of toxic people you need to eliminate from your life to make it better for you:

  1. Those who spread negativity
  2. Those who criticize you all the time
  3. Those who waste your time
  4. Those who are jealous
  5. Those who play the victim
  6. Those who don’t care
  7. Those who are self-centred
  8. Those that keep disappointing you

 

You need to look after yourself and if those people are more of a hindrance than help then you need to say bye-bye. Don’t think you are a horrible person because you’re anything but.

You can choose where you want those memories of them to go, to forget and bin them or to keep them stored away, the choice is yours.

I’ve always been taught to treat people as I want to be treated.